telling the truth alwys pays……
i hate to keep secrets in a relationship…..some of my frens will say tat ‘pls la its not liek as if he’d eva eva find out………..’ n so i tried ….but i cld nt hold back any longer….i knew i might face dire consequences but i juz went ahead….n my close fren told me to be truthful…..she said….’the truth will hurt but choose the rite moment n rite time n u will be able to put it across ‘ she also said gd things will happen to gd ppl n u did not do it with bad intentions so say it….nothing will go wrong……
it was nerve wrecking but i told the truth n i got a response that i did not expect………i was shocked………i guess the my sincerity was louder than the fact that i lied ….thank u god…..now i feel so relieved…….clean slate………i juz pray god not to take this happiness away from me…..let it take time to develop…..but juz dun take it awy from me pls….
May 2nd, 2007 at 2:03 am
babe i know many ppl say tt u shld not tell everything to the other party.but for me i feel tt if the news is really impt that will either make or break ya relationship with the other than its better to tell.can u imagine if somehow the other person finds out by his/her own??it wld be worse.just follow ya heart babe.all the best =)
May 2nd, 2007 at 10:07 am
ya i totally agree……n io followed my heart….n told the truth…..god is surely by my side if nt by now he’d have kicked me outta his life……i wld nt like being lied to….n wat i did i regard is the best thing to do…….
thanks fer u;re opinion babe…chicken wings were great by the way
May 3rd, 2007 at 8:35 pm
very wrong my dear…sumtimes nver confess…u mite tink tat im crazy..being a Man..let me tell…in e end it will 4sure..backfire u…Guys..they make it look like tat they understand..but it jus 4 tat moment…ya..5 fingers r not e same…but GUYS are…wen u quarrel or small misunderstanding…everyting WILL cum out…at tat time…u’ll feel terrible..n regret telling e truth…trust me..all tis will HAPPEN..mark my word..i’ve seen worse…n i dun wan u 2 go thru e same shit…sumtimes its beta if u dun tell tat sum1 everyting bout urself..he or she shud love u 4 wat u are now then 4 wat u were…every1 has a Past..being GOOD or BAD..it doesnt matter..cos NO ONE IS AN ANGEL…rite…tink bout wat i’ve said…take care my dear…let tis MAMA noe..if ure being bullied by anyone..sari ya…
May 3rd, 2007 at 9:13 pm
well the reason why i tell the truth is to see if he can accept it…..if he cant then its not menat to be mine…..there will be someone who’s man enough to handle truth’s….there WILL be…..
“Do unto others as you would have others do unto you. [Matthew 7:120]. “
May 3rd, 2007 at 11:18 pm
guess u wana learn tings e hard way..then im not goina stop u..remember…FLOAT LYKE A BUTTERFLY..STING LYKE A BEE..DUN BE BLINDED BY THE THINGS YOU SEE..take care..