Archive for February, 2007

Soul Mate

Wednesday, February 28th, 2007

This is something i read form oprah…….for me i feel i’ve already met n lost my soulmate sm yrs back………but smone to fall in love with ,well there are plenty of fish in the sea yea……so its bound to happen smday…..

There is potential for soul mate love all around us at every moment. It is a matter of recognizing the connection, sensing the "charge" of energy, and then cultivating a relationship that will take us beyond our present limitations. A soul mate brings us enormous joy and fulfillment, but even more importantly, soul mates lead us into our life’s lessons. They get under our skin and push our buttons. They inspire us to look at who we are and where we need to grow.

Whether single, married, or somewhere in between, we can begin practicing masterful ways
of relating with whomever stands before us, and in this way, we become better and more enlightened human beings. We can become the love we want to find; we can source it from within.

Seeing your partner through the lens of love rather than fear automatically elevates the relationship to a higher plane. When you can get quiet and note when you are projecting fear, you can make the adjustment to see through a different filter. So often we feel indignant or incensed, but upon closer inspection we will find that we are really afraid. Once we assume our partner’s core goodness rather than focusing on their "guilt," they will be more free to show us their best, which accelerates the process of shifting our perspective from one of blame and anxiety to one of acceptance and peace.

Being willing to forgive yourself and your partner, and to make amends when necessary is an ongoing process of cleanup. We all make mistakes; it’s human. But when we hold fast to a grudge it eats away at our sense of peace and serenity. If you aren’t willing to forgive, you might ask yourself what habit of ego you’re attached to. Do you want to continue life with unresolved issues hanging over you?

Seeing in the dynamic of the relationship the reflection of what you need to learn helps bring you back to what is important. Sometimes we get lost in the chatter of day-to-day patterns and lose sight of the soul’s mandate to bring us closer to realizing our Oneness. The best way to see where we need to work on things is to observe who we are and what we do within the context of a relationship. Any time you recognize your impulse to create distance rather than intimacy, you can make the adjustment and get back on track.

This relationship, as with all relationships, is part of a curriculum to evolve into our highest potential. We come to know ourselves by how we interact with our partner, and by so doing we come to know Spirit.

When you don’t know how to handle a problem, pray and meditate, surrendering the decisions to Spirit

Praying and meditating aligns your limited energy with that which is all-powerful. Of course we don’t have all the answers, but by consigning our limitations to our Higher Power, our burden is lifted. We need to be accountable for our words and actions and be willing to work through where we are stuck. We need to stay present and forgive. Beyond that, our creative power is fueled by Spirit. By praying, we ask for help and guidance; by meditating we clear our minds so that the answer will become apparent. By moving aside, we create an opening for God to work miracles in ways we could never imagine.

Honoring your partner’s path and allow them the space to find their own way sends a clear message of respect. People need to work things out in their own manner and in their own time. If you try to help where help is not requested, you are signaling your lack of belief in your partner. If you back off and assume someone is strong and intelligent, strength and intelligence are what they will likely find.

Although we are all on this path of realization and expansion together, each of us is unique in our lessons to be learned; the way you do something might be totally different than how someone else needs to process a situation. Rest assured that Spirit is at work in all of our lives, and give yourself a rest from overseeing your partner’s personal business

Keeping up your personal growth work means you will keep your mind sharp and your awareness keen. Read, study, and attend lectures; don’t rest on the laurels of what you think you already know. The moment we think we have it all figured out is the moment things will come crashing down around us. Arrogance leaves no room for intimacy or growth, and is certainly not part of a spiritual curriculum. When you immerse yourself in learning, you will always have new skills and interests to apply to a relationship, and thus the relationship will always feel fresh and relevant.
Following the path of your own creativity keeps you attuned to that which moves and inspires you. As you indulge your creative side, you become less dependent on your partner to feel whole. Creative energy is the force that breaks new ground. To sustain love, we need to continually fuel whatever inspires us on the deepest level. Also, creativity balances out the egoic and intellectual side of life; it teaches us to play and have fun. When we engage our passions, we radiate passionate energy and thus maintain the interest of our partner as well as having your own sense of fulfillment.
Staying present keeps us in the moment which is where life is. Life does not exist in future predictions or past grievances; all we have for sure is right here and right now. Every moment teaches us something, and if we are busily trying to change or control something we miss the grace intended for us.

By allowing the sacred mystery to unfold without trying to tamper with it, we can move through anything with much more ease and simplicity. As we cease resisting, any so-called negative situation or emotion will have the space to work out. And by the same token, when we are completely alert and aware in any given moment, we are open to the subtle miracles happening all around us. By staying present, we will see our partner for who they are; we will hear clearly their communication and respond to it astutely.

Being grateful for what you have zeros in on what is working, which in turn magnetizes more of the same. Where you put your focus is where you direct your creative intention; so if you want abundance, be grateful for the vitality you have now. If you want a soulful relationship, be grateful for the soulful moments. Gratitude is like a seed you plant; it grows more as it is watered and nourished. Show your partner what you appreciate in them and let them know that they have a positive effect in your life. The acknowledgement of good will call forth more of the same.
When we take a stand and refuse to let go of something, we can always find evidence to justify it. Or we can try to make peace. Instead of blaming or making excuses, we can clean things up and move forward. This is not an excuse for staying in a dysfunctional situation, but an opportunity to see innocence. Once we do that, we gain—or give—freedom to move out of a "stuck" place.
yup so some of these pts u may be able to relate so hope ya enjoyed reading em….cheers

old songs…….

Friday, February 16th, 2007

in the past there wld be so many gd songs n juz a handfull of bad songs…but now…..things have turned around so much …….only a few gd songs……..n not fantastic either…of coz im not some fantastic music director to comment on compositions but to me a good song shld be such that even after a long time if u listen to it it will stop u in u’re tracks…….n following are some songs which neva fail to bring a smile on my face or make my heart melt …basically they all stop me in my tracks n take me to a diff world……

a world without music is hell to me n i thank the lord for blessing me with such a divine gift …….. of being able to sing n also for filling my life with lovely lovely music….music has been my best fren through good n bad ….times when i had no one arnd me music has comforted me picked me up n pushed me on……..

so here goes the small list of songs which are my personal fav’s

1)aarariro paadiyathaaro

2)naan enbathu nee allavo

3)yen inniya pon nillave

4)nee oru kaathal sangeetham

5)thoongaatha vizhigal renda

6)un paarvaiyil oor aayiram

7)mandram vantha thendraluku

8)aadal kalaiye theivam thanthathu

n thats my 8 selections….there are surely more but these are all i cld come up with now……ok gotta go get ready n travel half way across s’pore…….

tata

fun fUN FUN!!

Sunday, February 11th, 2007

I LOVE MY LIFE….hahahahaha……..well last few days have been really fun …….. last whole week i’ve been staying home like a good gal…of coz got go sch n temple all la but after that i came back like a gd gal so tat i can stay out on sat…….sat was sheela’s farewell party at asoka……i miss being out with these gals man!!! its been so so so sooooooooooooooooooooooo long since i hung out with em…….due to being busy n all…….but looks like for sat, god was on my side n i met em…….

though there was one irritant who i met that day the nite was still fab!sm guys think all gals at a club are easy….u know wat u r so wrong la…..we’re juz having fun but we know ure motives…..nt all gals wld randomly exchange numbers wid sm guy u juz met at the club…or at least not me…..u’ve got the wrong person brother…..it might be interesting for all to know tat there was a survey done in the us n even in s’pore on ppl who get to know each other from clubs……apparently maj ….i cant remember the exact percentage but its a gd 90 over % of those who meet in clubs n get together who dun last…….

im not stereotyping but it happens……however i do know some couples who met in a club n living happily eva after ….guess they fall in the rare 10%

anyways that was sat……yesterday had a horrendously tiring time at dance class…..kinda disappointed with my performance in class……slacking already……high time i buck up in class……..

evening went for dhool……n while everyone felt tat kalai sir was giving the world’s most boring speech seriously i enjoyed his mini lecture more than the show it self…..why is it that indians Carry themselves so badly at shows like these….look at cc shows sch shows….n of coz these tv shows…..plus i had to see this monkey outside mediacorp running up n down the wall!!! can u imagine how embarrassing tat is to even watch…..n the kind of clothes they dress in…..jeans n t is ok as long its not sloppy but the all black is juz so awful….black is a classy colour though i hate it personally…..but black has a very fine line into looking rowdy……why muz we portray such an image…….

i was happy that me n my gal frens were dressed to occasion like always……….but of coz tamilians like usual wld be thinking kalai is juz toking a whole lot of bull crap………u know when i was studying in JI our sch motto was ‘open the window open the mind’it may sound stupid but its a phrase i carry with me where ever i go……coz everytime there is someone infront of u toking listen!!!coz even if u think its crap by juz listening attentively u may actually learn something….even if the person is juz  a child……..there is always something to learn at every juncture….its weather u open u’re windows to such talk n open u’re minds to receive such ideas…..

i read in a frens blog smthing she wrote that has been ringing in my mind for quite sometime………

‘great minds discuss ideas,average minds disscuss events n small minds discuss people……..’

i think its a great quote…….some day i hope indians become more classy n its not hard u know….we are such a small community ….how hard can it be for everyone to be a bit civic conscious??

well the competition itself was gd…anarchy had an impressive choreo ……the rest average i felt……..best thing there though was veshnu……….*sigh* i lou him la…he’s juz so so h-o-t HOT!!!

Then went to newton for dinner with the gals……yum ym…..i think i needa learn how to cook cereal prawns la….it so gd…….speaking of cooking this yr v’day is gonna be muffins…..hoepfully i get a gd recipe………..

i’ve been hearing from many that u guys have peeked into my blog n find em interesting…..thanks to all of ya n pls drop u’re comments….feel free to k………muacks….!tata!

The love of my life!!!

Wednesday, February 7th, 2007

Snoopy5 This is specially for my love joy n pride …snoop…..on 2004 sept 19 this darling was born n i rushed down to see him n guess wat…..it was love at first sight……!!Sasha_n_pups_1

(he’s the one on the extreme right) i wanted to bring him home there n then but i knew i had to wait n so at 3 weeks this bundle of joy came into my home n he has changed my life home drastically……not only mine but of my whole family…….now i cant imagine a life without him…..Fatty_n_co

sm ppl think im weird to pamper him with so much of goodies n treats but seriously he’s worth more than all that…….

he’s quite playfull n all……but not destructive or dirty now that he’s a big boy….. Dsc_0081

dear snoop though u are sitting on my lap rite now (like as though its u who’s using the pc) i know u cant read this…. but still…..juz wan u to know that i love u more than anything in this world n u make my life complete….. n i cant imagine a day without u ! thank u for coming into my life…..n thank u god for giving me such a blessing….!Snoop_n_i_1

7th feb…

Wednesday, February 7th, 2007

after almost 10 yrs today…..i played badminton….lol!! n im proud of my self hee hee did  not so bad a job…..mara n i might juz become the next best badminton duo….eh abit too much for one day’s play rite…..well basically it was a great day…….been spending alot of time at home n suddenly things that seemed very impt to me some weeks back seems to be taking the back seat……

durga this is for u da…….i know u are going through hell at work place n its juz sad to know how u’re are being scrutinized at work even for using the net n all….but dun fret ok!! tomolo we’ll go temple n pray to god to get u a gd new job…….luv u dear!!!

What would you do in this situation?

Monday, February 5th, 2007

Scenario:

Babyangel3

A works in a property management office. Two years ago, R, one of her coworkers, was pregnant with a child diagnosed with a degenerative spinal condition. On the recommendation of her doctor, she aborted the child at 5 months. A has just learned that R is again pregnant with a child suffering from the same condition. Her friend intends to abort this child as well. As an agnostic, R has no religious beliefs or firm moral code. What should A do? What would you do?

something that i came across so o give u’re comments…..

as for me if i was R i wld not have aborted the child even in the 1st case….coz there is a reason behind everthing….god has blessed em with such u child coz he believes that they can care for the child n they shld not let him down…….

of coz its not easy n thinking practically one wld wanna abort the child but to me its a life n at 5 mths!! no way…..!

v’day coming soon

Monday, February 5th, 2007

Baby20angel valentines day was one of my fav days during sec sch n JI times…..i din have a date to spend it with but my v’days are always spent with my frens (cept for 2005 v’day)…u can see the whole school exchanging gifts, chocolates and as for me there were times i’d bake cookies or brownies too……..n at the end of the day i’d usually feel sick in my stomach from having too much of sweet things…..lol but those were the times….every v’day day i’d think through those times n smile …… such wonderful memories …school days were the best….of coz im in the uni now n its still sch but its diff…..not as closely knit as my sec sch or JI…..Babyangel2

after leaving sch i had no such celebrations….onli in 05 spent it wid smone….a simple day for simple me….so my 04 n 06 v’day was juz a normal day….well to me valentines day is very special particularly because of the sweet memories it holds either wid a whole lot of my frens or with someONE special…..

as for this yr…..hmm…im thinking of baking sm goodies as always…..so anyone has gd recipes pls do drop me a note on it rite?…….

All God’s angels come to us disguised.  ~James Russell Lowell

n i’d like to render a special thanks to all those whom i’ve spent v’day with in the past and those i’ve yet to n in yrs to come as u all are my god sent angels to remind me that love is inevitable…..

love u all angels………!!